apologies for necro'ing this, put i didnt want to create another thread
presently though, i really dislike the way the game treats non-binary identies, and i dont feel that it makes that much sense as nb person myself - especially considering the setting of sindome is supposed to imply that LGBTQIA+ issues are a thing of the past. i see no actual reason to "make it difficult" for enbies to exist (if it really is intentional design), considering gender norms have been thrown out of the window
instead of having to spec into disguise to play as a nb character, i think it would be more fair to just let people mark themselves at nb in char-gen via another gender - considering it doesnt seem like its impossible to add another gender with its own pronouns, and go from there
presently, dealing with telling people you use gender neutral pronouns (when the game is constantly labelling you as either he or she) is a pain - and although you could argue "but how would you know they're nb from just looking" i think this is a non issue. sindome has other features that dont really make sense, and this one would just make sense convenience wise. i deal with enough of this pronoun-pain irl, i dont think i should have to deal with it in character.
if people still want to use disguise to change how they identify, they would still be able to - and the only real problem i could think of is sex changes, but even then something could probably be figured out.