Well, let's look at this realistically, because Sindome asks that we play realistic character, there are tons of realistic reasons why I don't leave the safety of my cube/pad.
-We're not all extroverts.
I know it's shocking, but this conversation reminds me of something I once saw complaining how it's always the introvert's problems and tips on how they can be more social. You never see Top Ten tips for extroverts to learn to shut the fuck up.
Some of us cannot handle the sheer flow of text that comes across the screen when a place is really bumping and crowded. That isn't even when there's something with massive text flow going on, like a television show premiere involving a crowded bar of shouting characters. This on top of the SIC network and having to keep an eye out for the inevitably flying molly to come sailing in. It is HYPER draining sometimes and it isn't something that is everyone's cup or tea, nor their black tar heroin.
-Fear, in general.
The Mix is not a happy place. In fact, it's a very very dangerous place. The sheer amount of corpses that you step over, and number of mothers calling for their lost or kidnapped children portrays such a place that only the craziest of people would WANT to be outside. In the Mix, you're either a victim or a victimizer. And if you think you're a victimizer, just wait. So it seems very odd that anyone outside the dedicated combat monkeys would WANT to be out on the streets. At some point existing outside of your pad without a reason is wanting to be a victim. And sorry not sorry, but victim RP is not playing to lose.
-Gear Fear, but clothing.
Yeah. I don't want to lose my gear. Nobody wants to lose their xo5 body armor. But more importantly I don't want anything to happen to my clothing. If I love and cherish a certain piece of tailoring, I should make sure to never wear it outside. A single knife slash or bullet wound and suddenly it is permanently ruined. I'm either going to be obviously worse for wear or my clothing would be always known to be repaired. As someone who is CHR based, that's not exactly my bag.
Worse was when I lost clothing to the vats that I actually tailored myself. All that creativity, pride and energy completely gone. There really isn't a point in me investing in what I wear when the slightest sneeze could ruin everything. You'll get more out of your chyner buying a leather trench and slapping a sticker on it, because it'll actually take a beating and LOOK like a weathered and used trench coat.
-Humans in general really don't leave their homes.
It's just human nature. I mean, odds are the majority of you reading this are sitting at a computer inside an apartment or a house. You probably did not leave the house for much reason, except to goto your job, maybe run an errand or two. But you leave your house, accomplish what you set out, and come back to your house. You probably didn't decide to randomly stand on the street corner for four hours talking to strangers.
If you're on the streets and not in your home, it's because your job requires you to be on the streets. Whether you're a cop, a EMT, or a criminal element on your turf, your job is to be on the street. Or you don't have a home, AKA you're homeless.
Also, normal people really don't go out that much in terms of social functions. If you're going out drinking more than 3 times in a week, you're probably an alcoholic.
-There really isn't anything to do.
If you're not a ganger, there really isn't anything to actually DO on Withmore streets outside of hang out at a bar. Sure, there are hundreds of people wandering the rooms, but... none of them say anything. Once a flipper knows who wants what, there's really no reason to strike up random conversations with people on the street when 95% of them will tell you to fuck off.
-It's raining.
Not sure if you noticed, but it rains a lot in Withmore. And it's very cold. I'm going to stay inside where it's warm and people can't kill me. What do you want me to do? No-sell it raining?
-I don't exist to be your loot pinata.
As I stated before, victim RP is not playing to lose. It's not fun. It's boring, and it makes me want to stop playing. Unless your strength is at the very least at the curve then a grapple from stealth means you die. That really is the long and short of it. I lose everything, you get everything for the same effort as smashing a pinata with about as much roleplay as sitting awkwardly in absolute silence for five minutes choking me out as I attempt to RP. This isn't a game I signed up for, and if I can avoid being a victim, you're damn straight I'm going to take every chance I get to avoid being your victim. Not leaving your apartment is the #1 easiest method to avoid becoming a victim.
And some people, if they're made an offer to escape Red and move to a sector where it's harder to be victimized, might just take that offer to avoid continuing to be a victim. Why am I not shocked that a major thread right now is that we should eliminate the ability to join Corp and escape Red? How dare those victims attempt to get away from everyone playing their victimizer simulation.
Sindome is a sandbox. That means you understand there's a possibility you'll get sand kicked in your face. But if you're an asshole and nobody wants to play in your corner of the sandbox, that's on YOU. Wondering why nobody wants to play in the murderhobo end of the sandbox and then claiming it's the victim's fault for not wanting to be a murderhobo victim? Aida's got a point that the blame is probably more in the victimizer's court than anyone else.
Like, I'm honestly blown away by the complaints I'm hearing. Somehow it's unfair to the victimizers because the victim can do things like... scream for help? Or even *GASP* lean on the protection and allies they've acquired to stop from being victimized? The audacity of having private security!
If you're paid to deliver a message and you can't figure out how to isolate your target, silence, and extract them to have a private conversation with them off SIC, I don't know what to say? Must suck to suck. Get gud?
But no, it's of course the victim's fault because they... want to live and scream for help? Or is it their allies fault for wanting to see your victim continue to stay alive? Heaven forbid your victim doesn't roll over and take it and actually wants to seek vengeance!
And you know, if we just got rid of all the Judges, then people couldn't hide behind NPC's and the safety of Topside.
The victimizer's failure at being a solo is not the victim's fault. It's the solo's fault.
So yeah, why don't I go out? Because outside of loud clubs there's nothing to do, it requires pants, and there's dangerous solos outside. If I have a reason to leave my apartment, I will. But I paid for my apartment, I'm going to enjoy the security of what I paid for.