On one hand, I get the desire to keep things separated. It helps avoid metagaming and makes for a much more immersive experience, which can be really fun.
On the other, it feels like building a sense of community among the playerbase is actively discouraged as a result when you can't share stories of things that happened with your characters or otherwise try and connect with the other players beyond what feels like superficial chatter.
To add further to the latter point, there are friends I think might enjoy the game, but I don't see a way I could invite them without it causing an inherent conflict of interest. What would I say? "Hey, I want you to play this game with me, except that we can't *actually* play together otherwise we might get banned"? Word of mouth tends to be a good way to encourage and develop a community and it feels like that's actively discouraged here.
Anyway, as mentioned I'm not really expecting anything to change, I just wanted to see what views others may have on the matter. I'm also still greatly enjoying the game and the people I have met IC, so still plan on continuing to play as my time allows, it just sometimes feels a bit lonely from the player viewpoint.